Lwendalo is a Zulu word meaning nature. It is mostly used in KZN by Zulus. Anyone named Lwendalo is well known of having a HUGE golden heart full of love. As the name says "Lwendalo" those people only give you natural love *Uthando Lwendalo* without expecting anything in return. When they say they love you, believe me they really do.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.