An effiminate, bisexual or gay male. Height of popularity was from 1984-1986, geographic usage confined between Waterford/Montville, CT to Warwick, Rhode Island. Being "Gayling" had a major following, members of this "group" usually were GQ-fashion victims, shopped at Midland Mall in Warick or Crystal Mall in Waterford.
I was sleeping over Mark's house when I awoke to him going down on me, I mean he went total Gayling on me!
Like the previous definition. Describes a bi-sexual male who looks like a GQ model. Never has to worry about if he's going to get laid, he always does and with either gender! Terminology used in the Southeast CT & RI area back in the mid 80's. Only heard now in a reminiscent way.
Term used when you catch a guy staring at your junk.
Guy #1: "Dude, are you staring at my junk?"
Guy #2: "What? No."
Guy #1: "Yes you were, you were totally gayzing!"
Guy: "I caught your gay friend staring at my junk yesterday"
Girl: "Really?! Were you wearing underwear?"
Guy: "Nah, I was freeballing it"
Girl: "Well, then you can't blame him for gazing!"