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Frame Control

Frame control is the little-known underlying phenomenon that dictates the outcome of every social interaction. It originates from the domain of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and how we humans categorize different situations into subjective psychological categories. A frame is an instrument you use to package your power, authority, strength, information and status. Almost all high-performance speakers use frame control to control the flow and outcome of a conversation.

It is, in essence, the act of imposing a mental/psychological viewpoint on any situation and forcing that situation to "conform" to that frame or belief. This is a fundamental component of self-motivation and social intelligence.

It generates an invisible energy field around you. The art of frame control requires unconscious conviction in your ideas as well as congruency between your intentions, speech patterns, and body language.

The art of frame control is most commonly used by PUA (pick up artist) and salesmen and is based on the laws of levels of consciousness.
Examples of basic PUA frame control:

Society frame: If a girl has sex with a lot of men, she is a slut.

Alpha male frame: Sex is healthy, normal, fun and a win-win for the girl and me. She wants to have sex with me so she can make a decision if we are a good fit for each other based off our chemistry.
Frame Control by handlez October 26, 2022
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The Art Of Frame Control 

The nature of reality is inherently ambiguous and is open to various interpretations. Gaining a greater degree of control over one's internal and external psychology is the most important factor in increasing one's level of success in all aspects of life. The collective congruency between your internal self and your external results is a Frame. Whoever is more confident in their interpretation will be able to control everyone's interpretations around them, this is known as The Art of Frame Control. Whatever man knows frame control will be able to gain the upper hand in any social situation, whether they are trying to land a big deal, convince their spouse to get on board with a decision, or pick up a hot date.

Josh King Madrid, better known as JetSet or JetSetFly wrote a book called The Art Of Frame Control after writing JETSET Life Hacks.
Billy: I can't find anyone who wants to buy my products and girls never pay me any attention. I been working on my mindset and it's not working. I've tried everything... Josh King Madrid teach me the jet set way so I can level up & live the jetset life too.

JetSetFly: Stop trying so hard and just use The Art Of Frame Control and it will happen automatically and effortlessly.

Dr David Hawkins: That is a fact at 499 LOC, Oh Lord. **Calibrates the LOC of josh king madrid's statement with muscle testing**

2 weeks later:
Billy: I'm now a multi-millionaire with 4 hot girlfriends, thanks for teaching me the art of frame control. The Jet Set Way truly is the only way.
JetSetFly: Makes a lot of sense.
The Art Of Frame Control by piaheza September 29, 2022
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