Someone that derives excitement and gets sexual gratification from being present while watching his (
wife, girlfriend or common law partner) have sex with other people. (generally and preferred - other men, but also other
women as well on occasion). He's different from a cuckold in that he's usually the
alpha in the relationship who dictates with whom, when, where and how his partner entertains others sexually as opposed to a "cuckold" whom often takes on a secondary or passive (non
alpha) roll. Cuckold Voyeurs generally do not participate in the sexual interactions between hi partner and others but
will often suggest positions and sexual acts that he would like to view.
The guy arranged for me to
fuck and use his partner as I wished so
long as it was cool with me that he was present to watch me as I did her. That
dude isn't just simply a cuckold voyeur, he's actually a voyeur first and a cuckold second.