Boymoder 

A trans woman (male to female for those uninitiated) who is attempting to present as their assigned gender at birth to avoid difficulties when people might notice they have transitioned.
For example, a boymoder might cut her hair short and wear baggy clothing in preparation for a family gathering so her family doesn't know she transitioned.

"I hate being a boymoder. Working from home is nice, but whenever I have to come in for a meeting I'm looking out of place with my casual baggy clothing."

Boymoder by Glad I'm not boymoding anymkre July 9, 2023

Boymoder 

Boymoders are transwomen who attempt to present as male while transitioning with feminizing hormones. Due to social anxiety, they're often afraid of showing any outward signs of femininity while being completely unaware that everyone can notice the changes. You can generally find them wearing oversized hoodies and women's skinny jeans regardless of the weather.

"The boymoder tried to cover her breasts with a baggy hoodie, oblivious to how visible they were through it."

Boymoder by Suit Pepe September 22, 2020

Boymoder 

A trans woman trying to present herself as male or in simpler terms a reverse trap

Is that a big tiddy tomboy gf over there? Oh wait never mind it’s just a boymoder

Boymoder by H3AsO4 March 24, 2022