short for Big Dick Energy (from Vox): the complete security of not needing other people’s benchmarks β€” wealth, intelligence, beauty, or a BD β€” to know one’s own worth.

Any suspicion of tryhard vibes kills BDE, as does the kind of cockiness that speaks of insecurity: the true BDE-haver is respectful to those around them, but with swagger. Someone with BDE will never text an unsolicited dick pic, because it would simply never occur to them.
by shadowscapes July 20, 2018
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BDE is the acronym for "Big Dick Energy". if you have confidence but aren't cocky about it, you have BDE. if you are a tryhard about it, then you don't radiate BDE.
most of the people who searched up "BDE definition" just to nod their head and say "that's me", even though they aleady knew the definition, most likely are tryhards with no BDE.
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KYLE: idk know what it is about her. she's just someone i'm attracted to.
DON: yeah cause she got that BDE you're lacking. she's a boss.
KYLE: yeah i should probably ride those coattails
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