short for Big Dick Energy (from Vox): the complete security of not needing other peopleโ€™s benchmarks โ€” wealth, intelligence, beauty, or a BD โ€” to know oneโ€™s own worth.

Any suspicion of tryhard vibes kills BDE, as does the kind of cockiness that speaks of insecurity: the true BDE-haver is respectful to those around them, but with swagger. Someone with BDE will never text an unsolicited dick pic, because it would simply never occur to them.
by shadowscapes July 20, 2018
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KYLE: idk know what it is about her. she's just someone i'm attracted to.
DON: yeah cause she got that BDE you're lacking. she's a boss.
KYLE: yeah i should probably ride those coattails
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