An
Alpha Female IS:
* Self-confident, assertive, a natural leader, a woman both
Beta women AND
men tend to follow.
* Feminine, sexually-aware, and instinctual. Not afraid to utilize
men's and her own sexuality to gain advantage.
* Naturally dominant over all except her Alpha Male. She falls into this role not by force, but by either expertise, planning/maneuvering, or sometimes manipulation.
An
Alpha Female is NOT:
* Masculine
* Forceful, overbearing (not if she remains
Alpha long-term)
* Angry, bitchy, nor any other negative names thrown around by Betas and Omegas who are dissatisfied with their social standing.
A True Alpha Female is NOT afraid to submit to a True Alpha Male, as defined by nearly feral standards, plus intellect and abilities to provide and protect.
Alpha women do not need to feel ashamed that we want
men to lead. We are still leaders on our jobs and in our places of worship.
No matter how much we, as women evolve, there are still parts of our female psyches that seek the protector. We still seek that man who can enter a room, assess the situation and take charge. When we meet
men who
don't have those strong leadership skills, we become frustrated and dominate them. If they are not worthy of leading us, then they should cower at our
feet. No?
Why should I, as an
Alpha female, choose a male that can dominate me? The
Alpha in me responds to the
Alpha in him. When I see him, I melt. When he speaks to me in his commanding voice, all my usual arrogance goes out the window. He understands who I am. I understand who he is. He understands my strength, but subtly lets me know that he is in charge now and that I no longer need to be in charge.
We are not wolves. Yet no matter how much we shave our hairy bodies, deodorize our odors, build tall buildings that speak of our prowess and drive around in fancy
speed devils, we are still humans. We are still part of the animal kingdom. No matter how
deep we bury our instincts, they are still there.
I am an Alpha female and I desire an Alpha male.
