Someone who goes to ANY 12 step meeting for the purpose of looking for a one night stand. They see people in recovery as "low hanging fruit" and tend to prey on them for their own sexual gratification whether it be a one night stand or a friends with benefits type situation or even a relationship.
I warned her that he might try to pick her up at the recovery meeting, he was so obviously a 13th stepper. He had always been a predator to ladies in recovery.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.