Somebody that tries to change everything and everyone in someone's life into something they won't love.
The instigator wasn't going to make the guy love his neighborhood any less by getting buildings wrecked or by getting people kicked out of them.
by Solid Mantis May 15, 2021

by heyo wassup December 23, 2019

Someone who tells people to remain calm or calm down knowing that the first thing they will do is react. Kind of like telling someone not to look at the dragon overhead.
by Solid Mantis May 12, 2021

Sign person- What are you going to do when it all works out?
Me- Oh you must mean when the instigator is gone for good and she's never coming back? Well, that's a peace I'll only know on the other side of her leaving, so it's happily ever after I've only read about. If I had a limited imagination, I'd tell you all that I will do then.
Me- Oh you must mean when the instigator is gone for good and she's never coming back? Well, that's a peace I'll only know on the other side of her leaving, so it's happily ever after I've only read about. If I had a limited imagination, I'd tell you all that I will do then.
by The Original Agahnim January 8, 2022

lucy.
by katemc1837 November 24, 2023

Trying to force someone to leave or kick them out of somewhere for no reason isn't compassion or tough love, it's not any kind of love, it's being an instigator.
The instigator's babysitter didn't leave him/her with anything to do that day, so he/she went around trying to kick people out or run them off from different places for no good reason, because it made him/her feel tougher.
by Solid Mantis February 23, 2021

The instigator couldn't let the elementary school kids laugh at him/her, so he/she posed as a something they would respect, someone who broke rules, while posing as someone who loved rules to play the adults while trying to get a few of them to respect him/her.
by Solid Mantis November 30, 2019
