He has integrity and character: simply put, a good
guy is less talk and more action. The Latin origin of “integrity” means whole, and when it comes to being a good
guy, wholesome is
sexy. Everywhere he goes, he leaves a mark.
He’s balanced: family and
friends always comes first. He prioritizes his time and is well-rounded in many areas. He’s a modern Renaissance man.
He’s confident: this doesn’t mean
cocky at all. He has a good self-image about himself and believes he deserves the best.
He’s courageous: he goes after what he wants even in the presence of self-doubt. He’s not afraid to approach women and spark conversation.
He listens: the good
guy doesn’t care about the sound of his voice. He doesn’t interrupt and he follows the rule that
75% of the time should be listening vs. talking.
He takes initiative: the good guy is a leader, and takes the first step in a group setting and in a relationship.
He’s detail-oriented: as tough as it is for a man, the good guy tries to stay on
top of it and is organized. When it comes to pursuing the girl of his dreams, he knows the little things count the most.
He has self-
respect and gives
respect to all: he focuses on the kind of man he wants to be, and creates a positive internal self-dialogue. A good guy is empathetic and forgiving.
