A non-man who is only romantically and/or sexually attracted to other non-men
Jade: hi, I'm Jade, I use they/them pronouns and I'm a lesbian
Dan: I thought lesbians were girls who like girls Jade: thats not true actually! Lesbian means non-man loving non-man, so it could be woman loving woman, but it doesn't have to be
A lesbian is a woman or feminine-identifying person who is strictly attracted to other women/feminine-identifying people. They can often be found listening to Girl in Red or being fetishized by straight men on tiktok.
Ex:
John šā¤ļø š„šÆ: *dances with shirt off to "I like girls who like girls"