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Pick Me

somebody who will do anything just for a chance for a girl to look at them
brendan is such a pick me all he does is text girls
by Holyraccoon May 9, 2021
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Pick Me

Someone who attacks their own community in pursuit of validation from another community.
“Sarah is such a pick me.”
“How?”
“She said ‘women belong in the kitchen’ so her crush would like her!”
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Pick me

Usage:
Shaming:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like chickens; because - themselves don't really love men if not despise, but want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men they've 'trained' to be an expendable utility. Destructive to any other relationship, that doesn't give them attention or follow imposed template - normalizing hers, they'd probably call you that.
Popularized on tiktok - a mental institution catalog / personal diary of deranged women.

Hypocrisy call-out:
Virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers.
- You're such a sycophant pick me girl.
- At least I don't hate men.
by veinsofgold April 27, 2025
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Pick Me

“Omg, he didn’t compliment my dress that I felt pretty in🥺” - Amber Heard, a pick me

A narcissist who lies about being abused for attention.
by Hehe2134 May 4, 2022
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Pick Me

The girl that's always trying to beat everyone at everything when it's not a competition. She was the girl that answered the phone for the teacher, did attendance, and would shame the class for not paying attention. Now shes the girl that thinks every guy is into her and gets mad when they regret her.
"Omg why is he not into me isnt everyone like i'm pretty I have a nice personality but he wants that basic girl"

"Karla stop being such a pick me"
by s1ml0g1c July 20, 2021
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Pick-me girl

A girl who desperately seeks male attention by acting like they are set apart, "not like the others", ironically setting them apart from other girls. Often uses insults directed at other women (usually behind their backs).
Example #1:
Friend #1: "I'm not like the other girls.. I'm nice, unlike that piece of trash Becky."
Friend #2: "You're giving off major pick-me girl vibes dude."

Example #2: Pearl Davis
by Just an Average Jess March 2, 2024
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Pick me

A pick me is someone who will most likely change her personality for someone of the opposite gender
afraid: hi nitbag
tara: omg pick me chose me love me
afraid: arent you 19.....
by reyy. December 9, 2022
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