Pick-me girl

Terminal cancer.
Wants all the boys, even the gay ones (me)
All of her relationships (likely senior freshman) looks creepy

Pick-me girl; HES MINE! YOU CANT TALK TO YOUR “friend” BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL THINK IM WITH YOU GUYS AND ITLL RUIN MY REPUTATION
Gay primary subject that said pick-me girl is simping over; We’re a gay polyamorous relationship of 22 men.
Pick-me girl; DONT LIE MY POOKIE BEAR!
Gay secondary subject, said “friend” of gay primary subject; I have never seen you in my life!
Pick-me girl; *continues to say multiple slurs*
Gay tertiary subject, unimportant to current situation; Twenty-twosom-

by fortcraft moment January 30, 2025

Pick me

A girl constanly seeking male attention(Isabella) (mia Leigh)

Person 1: i need a pencil
Person 2: ok ask Isabella
Person 1: nah she is a pick me
Person 2: ok ask mia Leigh
Person 1: shes also a damn pick me

by Darkness652 March 9, 2024

pick-me

A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like

Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)

Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"

by f0reverxternally October 21, 2025

Pick-Me

A pick me is Shiba

Shiba is a pick-me because she wants all the guys for her and doesn't give a shit about their mental health.

by Mehbrhe May 14, 2023

Pick me

Someone who refuses to recognize they’re a pick me but displays all the pick me traits.

Have you seen the way Rea walks around like she’s not a pick me? Typical pick me behavior

by Abbxoanzoabsg April 2, 2024

Pick Me

Rosie

Rosie is the biggest pick me girl to ever exist

by Kungfupanda9278 April 8, 2022

pick me

a person, specifically a woman, who will do anything extra to receive the attention and validation from men.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.

there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.

i really dislike sara, she is a pick me. i remember one time she purposely made fun of me in front of a huge group of boys just to see them all laugh... i never felt so embarrassed yet so betrayed in my entire life.

by gissguu March 19, 2022