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Pick-me

men and women, who say and do stuff, to seek validation from the opposite gender, via putting their own gender down.
Amanda just slut-shamed me in front of the guy I like”.. “ugh she’s such a pick-me”
by Katja40 March 18, 2021
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A pick-me is a noun used to describe a person, typically a straight man or a woman, who does things to get the attention of an “opposite group”. If it’s a straight woman, they’d say misogynistic stuff and throw other women under the bus to impress a man. Usually they’ll also blame issues caused by men on women such as saying that r@pe is the woman’s fault, not the man’s. In a straight man situation they’d say stuff like “no one likes me” and “of course you leave me like everyone else does”.

This also applies for other groups such as LGBTQ+. An example would be if a group of straight people or a straight person would say something trans- or homophobic and the person of LGBTQ+ would go along with it to get the group or the other person to like them.

Pick me’s are not nice people, their one goal is to get other people to like them.
Pick-me woman: “If you don’t want to be r@ped don’t dress like a slut! You were probably asking for it.”

Rational person: “Oh my god, shut up! You’re such a pick-me.”
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an abundant type of woman for the abundant non-quality men. This includes both tradthots and libfems
"Did you know her husband's nickname for her is "hole"? She's such a pick-me she just laughs about it! wtf"
by idmtkt February 23, 2021
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A term used to refer to those perceived as going out of their way to fit in with/appeal to members of a dominant group within their society. The pick-me is usually a member of a marginalized group within that society.
“Yes, let’s criticize the so-called pick-me and not the system of oppression that leads a person to putting the desires of others ahead of their own dignity.”
by Verbal assassin September 10, 2022
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a fucking phyco who's dad went to get the milk
person 1: STAWWWP IM NOT SHORTTT
person 2: fucking pick-me right there
by whydoiexistbro March 2, 2023
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A female who downgrades other women, and requires the attention of men.
Emily is such a pick-me
She is so pick-me
by w0rd$ December 22, 2022
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Shiba is a pick-me because she wants all the guys for her and doesn't give a shit about their mental health.
by Mehbrhe May 14, 2023
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