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Get the Refana mug.A dumb loser.. Dont even know how to play pubg and comes talking shit after getting beaten up. If he wins a fight, he is 'OP', if he loses, enemy is "Hacker".. And the amount of jealously is limitless
by anonymous November 24, 2021
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Get the Reat mug.Used to refer to someone or something, particularly on social media, that is supposed to be relatable to as big of an audience as possible, usually at the cost of quality.
Also used ironically and in combination with tags such as #deep and #quirky
Also used ironically and in combination with tags such as #deep and #quirky
Person 1: Why does Lele Pons make so many videos about being in school?? she's like 30...
Person 2: You just don't get it, she's so #relatable
"This is my 5th coffee today oh my god I'm such a crackhead #quirky #relatable #hashbrowns"
Person 2: You just don't get it, she's so #relatable
"This is my 5th coffee today oh my god I'm such a crackhead #quirky #relatable #hashbrowns"
by servvo1 December 21, 2021
Get the #Relatable mug.Basically any concrete aspect of reality which shatters the personal idealized image of a future scenario or occurrence, often one that is highly meaningful to the individual.
You see... while our minds often think in abstract simplistic ways, reality is often chaotic, abrupt, arbitrary, and outright disagrees with our ideals, thereby 'refuting' the idealized. Other times, reality can make your ideals seem hypocritical. It can be quite a sad and disappointing realization. It sometimes makes you want to lock yourself inside your own world even more, only to subject yourself to reality when needed or when you feel competent or wise enough.
You see... while our minds often think in abstract simplistic ways, reality is often chaotic, abrupt, arbitrary, and outright disagrees with our ideals, thereby 'refuting' the idealized. Other times, reality can make your ideals seem hypocritical. It can be quite a sad and disappointing realization. It sometimes makes you want to lock yourself inside your own world even more, only to subject yourself to reality when needed or when you feel competent or wise enough.
An example of a 'refutation of the idealized' would be the idealized picture of a romantic relationship you've always dreamed about in your mind ever since you were a kid. This picture is then refuted later in your adult life when relationships gradually (or abruptly) show itself in a manner so complex and chaotic that your visionary mind simply cannot handle. This might make you want to give up relationships altogether. (remember this is just one example)
Of course, the solution is to gain wisdom and rewire our minds towards the principles of realism and cognitive-behavioral approaches, but we may not always be ready for this yet. We may never feel like we are. This self change will eventually come naturally; it should never come abruptly, as you might risk becoming a cynic and/or grow a machiavellian complex.
A reasonable dose of idealized quirky thinking is always healthy. Heck, even a couple spoonfuls more is good; it is what makes you ultimately you. Let realism guide you through life, but don't let it ever rule you.
Of course, the solution is to gain wisdom and rewire our minds towards the principles of realism and cognitive-behavioral approaches, but we may not always be ready for this yet. We may never feel like we are. This self change will eventually come naturally; it should never come abruptly, as you might risk becoming a cynic and/or grow a machiavellian complex.
A reasonable dose of idealized quirky thinking is always healthy. Heck, even a couple spoonfuls more is good; it is what makes you ultimately you. Let realism guide you through life, but don't let it ever rule you.
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian December 30, 2021
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