shem 

the combination of a "she" and a "him", someone that you cannot tell what sex they are

Look at that shem over there dancing.

shem by April Keeping January 25, 2004

shem 

a scumbag, lowlife or degenerate.

I was walking down the street and I saw that shem that owes me $40.

shem by rayjay October 4, 2004

Shem 

A girl that is like a man and is a lesbo.

Hey look at Kensi, shes a shem.

Shem by samantha February 4, 2004

Shem 

Suburban Club Goer. Can be male or female but more commonly male. Can be identified by one or all of the following items: Cheesy tattoos(example: any form of flash tribal or anything incorporating a panther) spandex shirts w/ designer jeans. Spikey teased hair, J-lo sunglasses(yes even on males)lots of body glitter(again even on males) usually holding glow sticks.
Mostly found in the Westchester county area of NY.
More info See "Poseur"

Damn, this Club is loaded w/ shems tonite.

Can also be varried based on description
ie:
Wigger: sheminem
Shem-haven: Pearl nite club in white plains NY

Shem by Greg February 18, 2003

Shem 

Another word for a shemale

Did you see that guy with massive tits?
Such a Shem

Shem by Wicked Motha Fucker February 18, 2018

Shem 

An actual idiot

I hate that kid he’s a shem!

Shem by Casimir Pulaski School October 21, 2021

Shem 

Pronoun used to define a group of people who identify as both male and female.

I am going to go hang out with shem.

Shem by Schmidty13 December 18, 2021