Yan Ling is a good girl. She often studies hard but never admits that she does so. Yan Ling consistently scores the highest marks in various subjects. Therefore, she is an outstanding student. However, Yan Ling is a curious person. She is not only eagerly about the answers to lessons but the staff or matters around her. So, Yan Ling knows many secrets.
by InvisibleHanddddd September 13, 2022

Jane: hey i just got a pair of new boots for 50% discount!
John: oh yeah? What are we gonna eat for dinner?
Jane: don’t you fu yan me
John: oh yeah? What are we gonna eat for dinner?
Jane: don’t you fu yan me
by Mr. Chou December 10, 2019

Someone who has a beautiful smile that makes anyone fall in love with them and their personality can attract individuals. Yan is a kind, loyal and shy person who is not social. They are very cute and gives many chances. She get A, B and C grades. Usually play games, listens to music, sleeps late and like hugs. Yan can sometimes be childish and mature at the same time and has a lot of energy. If they spills out heart to you then she trust you. She hate mostly everyone especially her parents. Yan tend to be an emotional person who may cry easily. Most hide their feelings quite a lot and nobody seems to notice. Yan fakes her smile because it is easier than explaining the pain and doesn't want anyone to worry about them :)
by Hungry Dumpling November 22, 2021

Q: will you marry me?
A: Yan!!!
A: Yan!!!
by Loni.can May 26, 2019

Despite how it looks, irl yan is not a term used to say you are the real depiction of a yandere. IRL YAN is a coined term by the IRL YAN coping community. Reclaiming the term IRL YAN as a way of saying “ I use the term yandere to cope “.
This is because yandere comes from the words yanderu , to be mentally ill or sick. And deredere , to be cute and lovey dovey.
Being mentally ill is not inherently going to make you violent or a bad person and the community uses the fictional exaggeration of yandere to cope with intrusive thoughts , dissociation , OCD , BPD , NPD , codependency , anxiety , and depression… the list goes on. Though the coping mechanism can be used in a somewhat albeit manner , this doesn’t go for everyone within the community.
There are also other communities such as the lovesick recovery community for IRL YANS.
This is because yandere comes from the words yanderu , to be mentally ill or sick. And deredere , to be cute and lovey dovey.
Being mentally ill is not inherently going to make you violent or a bad person and the community uses the fictional exaggeration of yandere to cope with intrusive thoughts , dissociation , OCD , BPD , NPD , codependency , anxiety , and depression… the list goes on. Though the coping mechanism can be used in a somewhat albeit manner , this doesn’t go for everyone within the community.
There are also other communities such as the lovesick recovery community for IRL YANS.
Real IRL YAN : “ yeah I’m an irl yan , I use the term to cope “
Fake IRL YAN : “ UwU I’m a yandere for real stabby stabby “
Toxic IRL YAN usage : “ Yeah , I’m an IRL yan , I will literally try to attack him if he talks to another female “
Healthy IRL yan usage : “ I’m an IRL YAN , but I don’t act out on the belief of actually being the fictional depiction of yandere by using violence. “
Fake IRL YAN : “ UwU I’m a yandere for real stabby stabby “
Toxic IRL YAN usage : “ Yeah , I’m an IRL yan , I will literally try to attack him if he talks to another female “
Healthy IRL yan usage : “ I’m an IRL YAN , but I don’t act out on the belief of actually being the fictional depiction of yandere by using violence. “
by Be educated September 15, 2023

by The yanner May 6, 2022

by Wtfisthepaeudonym November 22, 2021
