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"Standing and Modeling" in one of Chicago's gay bars at a time that a less-than-convivial mood prevails.

If you mean "sadomasochism," just say "SM."
"I was at Sidetracks last night and it was pure S and M -- nobody wanted to talk to anyone."
S and M by al-in-chgo January 25, 2013
-Sadists and Massacists- Leather, whips, chains. Think about people who get turned on by being beaten to within an inch of their lives. It's surprising to see this definition undefined, I would have assumed Urbandictionary junkies to be major S and M freaks. Note- Not all S and M is sexually, some people get the pleasure out of just being bound or hit
Guy 1: Dude we are going down to the club tonight and there's this chick there who's going to whip us with a chain until we bleed.
Guy 2: SWEET!
Guy 3: Can I bring my latex bodysuit?
S and M by Azaru December 14, 2006
along with being sexual acts involving pain, refers to a part in season 4 of greys anatomy. in this context, it means sex and mockery - a relationship that involves only sex and making fun of each other in a flirtatious way.
derek: meredith, do you wanna get some dinner together tonight?
meredith: derek, no! s and m only!
S and M by hubbabubbaSMACK March 25, 2009
simphony and mettalica. i belive it was 2005 when metalica did a experiment with a full orchestrail occumpennyment
guy 1: im a homo
guy 2: well u show go to s and m
guy 1 : as if u fucking wierd god ur a psyco
s and m by jermsy1 March 6, 2008

S and M'er 

Short for "Stand and Model". Someone in the BDSM community who dresses the part, but does not participate.
"Get the hell outta my dungeon! You pussy S and M'er!"
S and M'er by D. Gould November 1, 2007
what hugh grant is into
well i’ve been into S and M for some time now -hugh grant
s and m by somecockwarmer August 20, 2022