verb | past tense: Fletchered
Definition:
A colloquial term used primarily within LGBTQ+ communities—especially among lesbians—to describe the experience of being unexpectedly left by a woman who subsequently begins a relationship with a man. Often used humorously or with irony, the term references a sense of betrayal or emotional whiplash, particularly when the woman was perceived as firmly identifying as a lesbian.
Etymology:
Derived from the pop singer Fletcher, whose queer-themed lyrics and personal branding have resonated with lesbian audiences. The term playfully reflects the perceived contradiction or the very real heartbreak when a seemingly lesbian-identified partner dates someone of the opposite sex, echoing themes in Fletcher’s music and public persona.
TL;DR: Named after former sapphic-pop star Fletcher, whose music is queer AF but who infamously dated a man after releasing some very gay bangers. Getting Fletchered is the queer version of “what just happened?”—equal parts betrayal, bisexual panic, and ironic meme fuel.
🫀Use with caution. Respect bi folks. But yeah… sometimes it do be like that.
Definition:
A colloquial term used primarily within LGBTQ+ communities—especially among lesbians—to describe the experience of being unexpectedly left by a woman who subsequently begins a relationship with a man. Often used humorously or with irony, the term references a sense of betrayal or emotional whiplash, particularly when the woman was perceived as firmly identifying as a lesbian.
Etymology:
Derived from the pop singer Fletcher, whose queer-themed lyrics and personal branding have resonated with lesbian audiences. The term playfully reflects the perceived contradiction or the very real heartbreak when a seemingly lesbian-identified partner dates someone of the opposite sex, echoing themes in Fletcher’s music and public persona.
TL;DR: Named after former sapphic-pop star Fletcher, whose music is queer AF but who infamously dated a man after releasing some very gay bangers. Getting Fletchered is the queer version of “what just happened?”—equal parts betrayal, bisexual panic, and ironic meme fuel.
🫀Use with caution. Respect bi folks. But yeah… sometimes it do be like that.
“We uHauled, got matching tattoos, made a playlist, and were planning a cottagecore future together — then she slept with her coworker Brad. I got Fletchered.”
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(girl) Oh did you see that Matthew Fletcher at the club last night?
(girl 2) Oh you mean the one with bad hair and bad breath?
(girl) Yea that one, i see his work, he cant weld for shit. Id rather go bang his friend Will!
(girl2) Yea I agree.....what a dick.
(girl 2) Oh you mean the one with bad hair and bad breath?
(girl) Yea that one, i see his work, he cant weld for shit. Id rather go bang his friend Will!
(girl2) Yea I agree.....what a dick.
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but all together a place where you grow closer to friends and mostly enjoy worshiping THE WILHELM!
but all together a place where you grow closer to friends and mostly enjoy worshiping THE WILHELM!
Mom: "how was your day at Fletcher Academy honey???
Kid: "THE WILHELM!!!!!
Wilhelm is the principal of our school, we put his head (a picture of his head) oh the top of the school Christmas tree every year
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