by Stegosarus With Wings October 7, 2009

A male homosexual that frequently seeks out the company and affections of much younger men (e.g., homosexual male version of the often used "Cougar" describing an older woman that is attracted to and dates much younger men).
My 45 year-old next door neighbor is quite a Bobcat, there is always a steady stream of 20 something guys going into his 1 bedroom house after the clubs close, and then appearing for the walk of shame as they scurry to an Uber in the morning.
by DJ Feltersnatch April 25, 2016

The male version of a cougar. A older man you would like to fuck. Now a serious bobcat is when the guy is really old but still super hot and you would bang him.
Blonde : hey check out that bobcat at the bar.
Blonde : Tara that guy over there is a serious bobcat.
Blonde : Tara that guy over there is a serious bobcat.
by Bobcat lover May 7, 2019

The only true meaning of bobcatting is the following one.
a few guys go stand in a circle and each of them jerks off the guy on their left. (or right whatevs)
Mostly used as an insult
a few guys go stand in a circle and each of them jerks off the guy on their left. (or right whatevs)
Mostly used as an insult
guy A "you heard the news about these guys? They were bobcatting all weekend"
guy B "thats disgusting"
guy B "thats disgusting"
by tim the enchanter October 9, 2013

Did you see that woman? She appeared at least 28, but her man wasn't even 20! By God she's a fucking Bobcat!
by Southern Idiot May 27, 2023
