A passive top may prefer the bottom to be astride him and/ or in control of the pace of things. Importantly, the top isn't always in control of the action. The terms active/passive often have to do with how power and control are managed - on many levels - in a particular sexual interaction
A passivetop likes to go with the flow and doesn’t need to be aggressive to have fun.
A teasing 'game' or activity in which two or more people collaborate to seize someone's possession, tossing it to each other to prevent the owner from getting it back. This 'game' has been played for generations in New Orleans and is pronunced 'pos-say.'
Heather and Robert ripped off my bikinitop and tossed it back and forth, saying "passez" with each toss.