by Wise woman 777 February 20, 2021

How should one respond to being told...”I worry about you?” Should they be worried? Why would they be worried? If there is nothing to be worried about, must they be asked, “why they are worried?” It is a change in behavior or maybe no change in behavior that is so worrisome? Showing emotion? Not showing emotion? This is very important and much more than you may want to think because worrying about someone is vastly different from caring about them. Worry denotes deficiency, a lack of ability, negativity, it is judgmental. Caring about someone denotes you love them and see them struggling and you want to help and support them.
Here’s the thing if you keep the behavior unchanged … the behavior that causes people to worry about you becomes the source of more worries. Aren’t we all to be worried about in such times. Is reassuring them there is nothing to worry about the route to go. Why worry now? Lose your temper? Sob? Take charge? Ask the same question back at them, to potentially make them question themselves?
However, when something is really wrong and worrying is needed there will not be any need for concern because nothing is different about you.
It simply means that there are things we must do when we have people in our lives who care about us...worry about us, by worrying about their worrying, about us!
We still have a long way to go to get to a destination of “normal...a worry less state.”
Here’s the thing if you keep the behavior unchanged … the behavior that causes people to worry about you becomes the source of more worries. Aren’t we all to be worried about in such times. Is reassuring them there is nothing to worry about the route to go. Why worry now? Lose your temper? Sob? Take charge? Ask the same question back at them, to potentially make them question themselves?
However, when something is really wrong and worrying is needed there will not be any need for concern because nothing is different about you.
It simply means that there are things we must do when we have people in our lives who care about us...worry about us, by worrying about their worrying, about us!
We still have a long way to go to get to a destination of “normal...a worry less state.”
I had a meeting with my boss and she kept telling me...”I worry about you.” I know I have been struggling as a leader during this pandemic, but her worry stems from the fact that I cannot keep up—14 hour days, 7 days a week for 8 months is hard. It wears on your mind, body and soul!
by SullieTough December 13, 2020

Taking a large dump that resemble loaves of bread, while wandering through a park, garden, vegetable patch, forest, corn field and/or pumpkin patch.
It was a mistake to sign up for that nature walk after I had all that Indian food because I was uncontrollably loafing-about that botanical garden.
by Luvstopoopfromfiber February 17, 2009

National Start A Rumor About A Stupid Bitch day starts on November 28th, aka 11/28! It means, if you find out something about someone, you can spread it around if you really hate them!
Person 1: I just found out that ___ did has a crush on your boyfriend!
Person 2: I’m telling everyone!
Person 1: wait, why?
Person 2: because it’s National start a Rumor About a stupid bitch day!
Person 1: oh, okay! I’ll start one about her as well!
Person 2: I’m telling everyone!
Person 1: wait, why?
Person 2: because it’s National start a Rumor About a stupid bitch day!
Person 1: oh, okay! I’ll start one about her as well!
by bemo! November 22, 2021

Somebody else kid is going to get what YOU deserve if you do stop trying to make using my own words against me work.
Retard "The thing you said but about YOU though!"
Hym "Yeah, hey... It doesn't apply in reverse and siding with the molestee does not make you virtuous. And do you know why? I am not going to live as the not-creator of AI. And in trying to make me to that is condemning a child to death. There is no 'you not doing anything' here. You are not a bystander. You either want the kid to die or you want me to get the credit. There is not 3rd option for you. Get over yourself but YOU are not the creator of AI. And neither is fucking Noah."
Hym "Yeah, hey... It doesn't apply in reverse and siding with the molestee does not make you virtuous. And do you know why? I am not going to live as the not-creator of AI. And in trying to make me to that is condemning a child to death. There is no 'you not doing anything' here. You are not a bystander. You either want the kid to die or you want me to get the credit. There is not 3rd option for you. Get over yourself but YOU are not the creator of AI. And neither is fucking Noah."
by Hym Iam July 15, 2025

Here's a sentence using "know what one is about":
She was a seasoned negotiator who clearly knew what she was about.
She was a seasoned negotiator who clearly knew what she was about.
by Arminkshipper July 29, 2024

Simon: Hey, what does not giving a shit about the Third World mean?
Justin: Basically it means you don't care about the problems of people from the most poor nations, duh.
Justin: Basically it means you don't care about the problems of people from the most poor nations, duh.
by EvanC7 December 31, 2023
