Pain Shopping

Conducting investigations to confirm invited that your partner is cheating/lying on/to you.

Searching through your partner's phone, social media activity, following/surveiling them, and getting someone to "loyalty test" your partner, are all examples of this behavior.

I was pain shopping through his phone today to see if he's still liking that other chick's photos.

by anonymous December 03, 2022

Particle Of pain

The tiny bit of nail that sits between your nail and skin that insists on making your day hell.

“Mum get the tweezers I’ve got a particle of pain again”
“I’m not pulling that out again, last time you fainted!”

by Glassie June 08, 2019

Pain Proxy

I became the spouse's pain proxy, their unhealed stuff landed on me

I never agreed to be your pain proxy

by SSAsystemicscapegoatabuseowner August 06, 2025

Deferred Pain

What you are in pain but suck it up and worry about it later.

I don't want to do snake's on the pilaties reformer Jo I wish to defer the pain your putting me through: deferred pain

by Kevin coates October 27, 2023

Pain play

Intentionally inflicting pain in a sexual manner done for increased intimacy between partners, sexual gratification, as well as spiritual and emotional growth and connection, all pleasurable experiences

Very common in the BDSM community

Random guy- “I always thought she was an innocent Christian girl! Turns out she's hella into pain play”

by Mrbobiscool9 December 26, 2023

background pain

A pain that's there but you can ignore its existence. Your not screaming but your not thrilled.

"Hey you in alot of pain?"
"Nah man it's more like background pain"

by I am smart hehe :) November 16, 2020

Pain in The Sack

When someone is always trying to one-up you.

Guy 1: "Dude stop lying we know you didn't sleep with Kayla first."

Guy 2:"Yeah I did!!! She was wetter than a raw oyster"

Guy 1:"Bullshit you're just trying to one-up me... I fucked her first."

Guy 2: "Man you're a Pain in The Sack. Ask her sister!"

by Flatz Buzz Bro July 30, 2020