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pick-me

A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like

Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
by f0reverxternally October 21, 2025
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Pick-Me

Shiba is a pick-me because she wants all the guys for her and doesn't give a shit about their mental health.
by Mehbrhe May 14, 2023
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Pick-pocking

Regional slang referring to selling drugs, typically in a public location such as a street corner. Often associated with street-level hustling or illicit transactions.
“Late at night, you can see guys pick pocking on the corner, quietly selling their product to keep the hustle going.”
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by ioWEAR August 11, 2025
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Pick Me

Rosie is the biggest pick me girl to ever exist
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Picking on MEN

How many of these do I have to do, Jordan? It LOOK TO ME like we ONLY CARE SELECTIVELY when we can use it to prevent someone from becoming on of the special people but if the SPECIAL PEOPLE do it it's fine.
Hym "Hey what happens to your reputation if you're picking on MEN, Jordan? What happens if you're a charlatan? To you're reputation? What happens if you collectively try to impose schizophrenia on someone? Oh wait... This. This is what happens. I am the consequences of your collective actions. What's my score? I know it's AT LEAST 2. What's the score?"
by Hym Iam August 15, 2023
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