background trauma

Trauma from your past that you've either buried deeply or gaslight yourself into believing wasn't trauma, or both, that affects your day to day decisions and you don't even realize it.

Her: How do you find the worst romantic partners?

Me: I think my background trauma gives me an inferiority complex, it affects everything actually, not just the guys I date.

by Siouxise Eileen November 30, 2023

Background Friend

A friend that only exists in the background, like a background character. Similar to an extra on a movie set, they mainly fill space and feel sad.

Main Character: Nah don’t invite her, she’s just a background friend.

by BackgroundFriend December 5, 2023

Background check

Ask about information to find out If that girl been doing d*cks

You better give her a background check

by Toslizzy September 27, 2023

backgrounder

A person who replies to a social media post/photo with a completely unrelated comment. Typically, the comment is in reference to something in the background of the photo.

Rather than be of help, Ted chose to be a backgrounder and commented on something unrelated to the post seeking advice.

by peterreis October 2, 2023