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Being a backronym of AADC (the title of an Indonesian movie), "approach-avoidance defensive conflict" refers to the psychological struggle where a single goal has both positive and negative aspects, causing a person to be both drawn to and repelled by it. This internal tension leads to stress and indecision as the individual weighs the pros and cons, and the conflict often results in periods of back-and-forth thinking. Examples include wanting a promotion but dreading the longer hours, or wanting a vacation but being discouraged by the high cost.
She faced an approach-avoidance defensive conflict when she considered accepting the job offer; the salary was great, but the thought of a longer commute made her hesitate.
by Emotional Cruiser October 25, 2025
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conflicteering

Various tactics often used in a protection racket, by legal pros, corporate risk management, and the intelligence community, which are intended to draw enemy targets in to conflict generally, including (especially) conflicting interests.
I'll hire a prostitute to seduce a married target or his spouse, conflicteering him into a fight with his neighbors boss or land lord.
by sage wind October 28, 2021
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Crucial conflict

Something that looks like fun or beneficial at first but interferes with other more important matters in the future.
Having sex with your friends girlfriend is definitely a crucial conflict.

Having sex with someone who has an STD , is also a crucial conflict
by Black wisdom November 12, 2017
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login conflict

when you are on one account on one device and someone else logs into your account on a whole different device, causing you to get logged out.
Me: bro why does it say "login conflict" on my screen?
My friend: Someone got into your account from somewhere else.
Me: uh oh.
by ello there =) January 10, 2024
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Conflict Fetishist

Noun. A person who deliberately goes out of their way to challenge well posted rules by causing a public scene, in an attempt to gain internet clout, or spread misinformation.
That's how all these conflict fetishists are. They want to

up to the bullshit. Ignorant trash and cowards, all of them.
by Totally Not Joe Canada December 8, 2021
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Hyper conflict

a scene or event with an excessive amount of combat with childish or simplified mechanics with clustered combatants in close to mediumly close proximity to other non friendly combatants
halbert - "wow this 1529 oil painting depicting The Battle of Alexander at Issus has a real hyper conflict going on huh james"
James - "this is why your girlfriend left you"
by the F.D.A November 21, 2024
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conflicted Nigel

why oh why did my parents give me a spastic name
by mrs tosser August 3, 2025
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