The crybully claimed to be colorful and different, but was about as plain and bossy as anybody could
get, and it wasn't like her mother and
father, or other family members really made her that way by being authoritarian with her. She never got her ass whooped by either parent as a
kid, she never really even got ordered about by either parent or other family members, perhaps an occasional straightening out was about all anybody was allowed to do to her.