Yiddish expression for an Ass kisser, suck up, brownnoser. Not a compliment.
Tokhes (Yiddish): gluteus maximus, ass, butt Lecher (Yiddish): A lecherous man.
Alt spelling: Tukhes Lecher, Toochis Lecher, Tuchus Lecher.
That Goldman is always sucking up to the boss. He is such a tokhes lecher.
The charecter of Eli Turnbull (David Spade) in the Movie the Coneheads was a classic example of a tokhes lecher.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.