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a person, specifically a woman, who will do anything extra to receive the attention and validation from men.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.

there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
i really dislike sara, she is a pick me. i remember one time she purposely made fun of me in front of a huge group of boys just to see them all laugh... i never felt so embarrassed yet so betrayed in my entire life.
pick me by gissguu March 19, 2022
Someone who calls all their friends bestie even though they are not that close
Cindy: Hey bestie!! Hey bestie over there!! Oh hey Jack you’re my bestie too!!! (they were in fact not besties)

John: Wow Cindy is such a pick me, she just calls everyone she knows bestie
Pick Me by Asian Wendy’s March 31, 2022
“Yea kacey collins is such a pick me
Pick me by hahhw April 5, 2022
A term coined by bitter feminists to shame non feminist women from agreeing with the criticisms hurled at modern feminist women by anti feminist traditionalist men. It acts as a deflectionary tactics to intimidate righteous women into silence because the feminist man hating agenda needs all of modern women's compliance for it to work.

Pick Me labels have been refashioned into an insult for traditional women no different than being labeled a house wife is akin to being a slave to a man.

The reality is a Proverbs 31 woman is a Pick Me.
“She’s always agreeing with those MGTOW men about modern progressive women criticisms, she’s such a pick me, eww.”
Rosie is the biggest pick me girl to ever exist
Pick Me by Kungfupanda9278 April 8, 2022
A pick me is.someone who constantly refers to themself in horrible manners such as "I'm an ugly skeleton", they also constantly say things such as "nobody likes me, nobody loves me, I'm forever alone" a pick me is someone who would rate themself a 2/10 but secretly rate themself a 9 or a 10 just to get other people's approvals.

Pick me's usually cheat but blind people into thinking they was the ones who was cheated on.

They make people believe they have low self esteem but masturbates to themself in the mirror.

Pick me's constantly need validation.
Also known as an attention whore.
Person 1: did you hear what Billy said?
Person2: who, Billy Joshua Paisey?
Person 1: yeah, he's such a pick me, he's telling people he's ugly again whilst cheating on the 18 year old with Misha
Pick me by Williamjoshua April 10, 2022