Asslighting 

When you and your partner are making sweet love together and you shove a firecracker up their ass before lighting it and shoving your dick in their mouth and cumming as it goes off

"I know right Grace? Me and Liam's relationship has gotten so much more exciting now that we've been Asslighting each other lately"

Asslighting by FarawayAssGang March 11, 2021

Asslighting 

A derivation of the term "gaslighting," asslighting is when someone lies about doing butt stuff with you during intercourse and denies your very real suspicions that it occurred in the first place.

"Hey my butt feels weird, did you do stick anything up there last night? "

"No, and I definitely did not stick two fingers up to the second knuckle in you butt."

"I don't believe you, I feel like I'm being asslit right now. You're Asslighting me again."

Asslighting by Film Time December 20, 2023

Asslighting 

When you tell the truth to someones face

The opposite of gaslighting

Quit asslighting me.

Asslighting by HCCC January 21, 2025

Asslighting 

Derived from gaslighting. When a person is deliberately sexually provacative, a tease, but denies it when called out, and makes it so the teased thinks they're just imagining it.

I kept intentionally arousing this person, and every time they confronted me, I insisted that they were just imagining it. They thought they were losing it, I was totally asslighting them.

Asslighting by Jacques Hughes May 4, 2025

Asslighting

When a loved one, partner, or overly health-conscious friend persistently tries to convince you to get a rectal exam or “explore back there,” usually under the guise of “it’s for your own good.” A blend of gaslighting and ass, because suddenly you’re questioning your own boundaries and anatomy.

“I told her I wasn’t ready, but she kept talking about ‘early detection’ and ‘trust.’ Bro, I think she's asslighting.”

Asslighting by jonfisher1981 October 14, 2025

Yasslighting 

A pun based off the term gaslighting when a person or group of persons (typically a comment section) blatantly lie to gas up an ugly person trying to pull off a look they shouldn't with "yasss queen slay girl boss" energy. Typically this will be skinny girls telling fat girls they look amazing in skintight revealing outfits complimenting their "confidence" so that they can look better in comparison or handmaidens and trans people telling other trans people how awesome and feminine they look in anime outfits they got off wish or masculine they look while still in makeup, jewelry, and neon hair dye.

Did you see all the yasslighting going on in the comments of that Lizzo post?

Yea it was almost as bad watching Dylan Mulvaney and that other trans person on his tick tock with all the facial hair telling each other how great they are at girlhood

Yasslighting by 2Based2Care February 22, 2023

YassLighting 

The opposite of gas lighting when a bunch of people, usually liberal white women, provide transparently untrue compliments to someone in order to make them feel better.

An example of Yasslighting in a conversation would be

oh yeah "Michaela" you totally look like a pretty woman! You look prettier than most cis girls, I wish I could slay like that.

YassLighting by Soupburger March 25, 2023