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"Stoking" - verb - is the act of being "stoked". You can be stoking from something which has happened, is happening, or is about to. It's not fussy.
"Get a better pie. I am stoking right now."

"Stoking for the weekend..."

Fuck she was like a 10! Stoking much?
stoking by Kate's Party Hire May 21, 2010
Prompting a firey response in a victim.
A: "Yo' Momma"
B: "Why you stoking me?"
Stoking by Powder_ Keg March 24, 2010
When a player puts the bat in the throw by fielder and deflects the ball and score runs on it.
In world cup final while taking run Ben Stokes saw he will get out he deflected the throw by Stoking
Stoking by CricketerRishi July 15, 2019
The act of being stoked. Awesome/cool/digging it.
"Woah that guy's live set is stoking."
Stoking by xbe November 15, 2011
Stoking:

Verb
the action of refusing to admit to yourself that you’re obsessively following an individual.
Stok (also spelt stoke):
Dude stop stoking we all know you’re a stalker.”
Stoking by Isaac Dicks October 30, 2021

Stoking The Fire 

Literally no one's ever used this in a sexual connotation.

It was used in the movie 'Disturbia' where a scene appeared to invoke some kind of sexual tension moment when the killer says "someone as intelligent and attractive as you doesn't need to be wasting her time stoking the fire" while appearing charming and dark at the same time.

You can find the exact scene by searching "Disturbia (6/9) movie clip" in youtube.

What he was actually implying is that she doesn't need to piss him off when all he wants is privacy.

How this was misinterpreted is beyond me. Stoking the fire means to agitate the embers of a fire to keep it burning when it's almost out. Agitate being the keyword.
Q: What are you doing with that stick?
A: Stoking the fire, it's almost dead

A: I know your car got stolen but I accidentally ran over your cat
B: You're just stoking the fire now...
Stoking The Fire by iAmMeowNow January 30, 2020