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Definitions by gendermender248

Joelighted

A revelation that something wasn't all that you thought it was, occurring when you go through something a second time

Like in Bladerunner 2049 when the hologram calls the protagonist a "Joe"and the neon light hits his face
You remember when that one waitress said "bye, love"? She totally had a crush on me, right? Well I went again and every waitress was saying that to every customer. I had to take a pause. I got joelighted
Joelighted by gendermender248 February 5, 2026
Gender expression involving cool things, toughness, finances, and strength.

(The gender neutral term for "masculine")

Opposite of mininic
(gender neutral term for "feminine")
He always liked skateboards and rocketships. He had an affinity for those culinic things.
Culinic by gendermender248 September 2, 2025
Gender expression involving pretty things, cuteness, domestic work, and nurturing.

(The gender neutral term for "feminine")

Opposite of culinic

(gender neutral term for "masculine")
She always liked makeup and unicorns. She had an affinity for those mininic things.
Mininic by gendermender248 September 2, 2025

Doulosexuality

/Doh-loh-sexuality/
An attraction to a person of a subjugated gender, whether under patriarchy or matriarchy

Can include: shaven body hair, pretty outfits, submissiveness, doing everything for you, dependence

Just the general vibe of someone who belongs to an oppressed gender. Importantly, could be men, if we were under a matriarchy
Our friend, who says he's gay for anyone, only ever seems to like domestic femboy twinks.
We suspect his "homosexuality" is more of a doulosexuality

Archosexuality 

An attraction to a person of a ruling gender, whether under patriarchy or matriarchy.

Can include: body hair, professional clothing, dominance, unjustified anger, giving you chores, them making a lot of money

Just the general vibe of someone who belongs to a oppressive gender. Importantly, could be women, if we were under a matriarchy
Our friend swore she was straight, but after she married another woman for her money and "powerful vibe", we suspect she's just archosexual.
Her definite "heterosexuality" was more archosexuality

Matridouly 

(Literal Greek: Mother-Servant +y)
/Mey-trih-doh-lee/
A system wherein the female gender is subjugated by the male gender
(Matridoulic - Something oppressive to women)
What? Women aren't allowed to leave the house unaccompanied? This is textbook matridouly!
Matridouly by gendermender248 July 29, 2025

Patridouly 

(Literal Greek: Father-Servant +y)
/Pey-trih-doh-lee/
A system wherein the male gender is subjugated by the female gender
(Patridoul - A male person in a matriarchy)

(Patridoulic - Something oppressive to men)
What? Men aren't allowed to leave the house unaccompanied? This is textbook patridouly!
Patridouly by gendermender248 July 29, 2025