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Definitions by Ememento

Past Acceptability Maximum 

How much of a romantic or sexual past one is willing to accept in a prospective partner.
John never went more than second base himself. His past acceptability maximum is a woman who went as much as third base. He is unable to accept anyone with experience more than that.

Jack's past acceptability maximum was a woman who had slept with one man maximum. But as Jack gets older and is unable to find such women, his past acceptability maximum increases and becomes more lenient. He is now open to women who slept with two men maximum.

Jane's past acceptability maximum is a man who went to third base maximum. But when she meets the handsome and tall Juan, she forgets her past acceptability maximum.

Compatible Past 

A couple is said to have a compatible past if their past romantic and sexual experience is on a similar level.
John had two girlfriends and Jane had 5 boyfriends, they don't have a compatible past.

Jack went only as far as first base, while Janice went as far as second base with her previous boyfriend. They have a compatible past since their experiences are near similar.

Jean only made out with a woman while Jill slept with two guys before. They don't have a compatible past.

Jacob slept with 3 woman and Jessica with 2 men. They have a compatible past.
Compatible Past by Ememento September 20, 2024
(adjective) Exhibiting or characterized by prejudice, discrimination, oppression, or antagonism against individuals or groups based on their mental health condition, whether real or perceived.
The company's hiring policy was criticized for being sanist, as it excluded candidates with a history of mental health issues.

Sanist attitudes are pervasive in the workplace, often leading to stigma and exclusion of those with mental health conditions.

The media's portrayal of people with mental illnesses often perpetuates sanist stereotypes.
Sanist by Ememento September 14, 2024
To express or exhibit prejudice, discrimination, oppression, or antagonistic behavior toward someone based on their mental health condition, whether real or perceived.
The manager did not hire an individual with a psychosocial disability. He was subsequently criticized for sanizing potential recruits with mental health challenges.

The media often sanizes individuals with mental health conditions by perpetuating harmful stereotypes about mental illness.
Sanize by Ememento September 14, 2024
Prejudice, discrimination, oppression, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people based on their mental health condition, whether real or perceived.
Sanism is evident in the way society marginalizes people with mental health conditions, often denying them equal opportunities in employment and social participation.

Activists are raising awareness about sanism and advocating for more inclusive policies that protect the rights of those with mental health issues.

The therapist addressed the sanism present in the medical community, which often leads to a lack of respect for patients with psychiatric diagnoses.
Sanism by Ememento September 14, 2024

bhondo lok 

Literally hypocritical people. Refers to individuals who themselves did all sorts of anti-social things such as smoking, drinking, premarital sex in their youth (or continues to do so secretly); whose children, relatives and neighbors still do the same - yet they continue to preach and enforce religious and conservative social values on those they can impose their thuggishness on.
Uncle John is such a bhondo lok. He used to drink when he was young, his own son sleeps with his girlfriend, yet he goes around scolding his nephews for simply dating and being out late at night.
bhondo lok by Ememento September 5, 2024
Misspelling of the word bondhu (bondhu means friend).
I want to be your vondo.
vondo by Ememento September 5, 2024