Dr. Bota's definitions

Family Identities

Gender Identity Variant
Anyone can be whoever they want.

Antishoplifting Mom
Mom
Mother

Questioning Dad
Dad
Daddy

Lady Uncle
Uncle
Uncle’s Cousin

Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin

Guy

It's up to you, we're all guys family identities.

Mother can Uncle's Cousin is Questioning Dad.

by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021

Bota

Undefined, yet show signs of individuality. Most likely paradoxical. Has the potential to do and be anything, most likely excellent. Exists outside the paradigm: Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta, Omega, Sigma.

Alternative spelling: Boda

I’m a Bota.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021

Oy

Looking backwards or in a way that is not Soy, Loy and Doy. Catch-all term for what? or other.

Common reasons: bewilderment, searching for something, confusion, uncertainty, etc.

I look with questions I don’t understand: That’s an oy.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021

Doy

Looking down.

Difference between Doy and Coy: it is not designed to be cute and/or flirtatious. Hair tuck and/or smiling is optional. There is wind to it, phenomenon is unexplained.

Common reasons: Happiness, Joy, Affection, Infatuation, Shyness, Confusion, I Don’t Understand, I Don’t Get It, Insight, Meditative, Sadness, Calm.

Ways of Looking: Soy, Oy, Loy, Doy.

A person doys graciously and sits on a chair, ready to eat oatmeal.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021

CEO Day

November 2nd is the official US National holiday: CEO Day.
11/2/Year

I'm so happy it's CEO Day that I'm living my life the way I want and need to, every day of my life.
Excellence is normal.

by Dr. Bota November 2, 2021

Selfdom

Self-domination. A state of being where you love yourself, unconditionally and reasonably. To throw yourself onto yourself, one on top of the other until you are a pile.

I engage in selfdom in my spare time.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021

Vanity Identities

Self-Love. A healthy high ego.
It gets mistaken for arrogance.

Bootleg Vanity - if you really like how you look, but you don’t take it seriously and it’s light-hearted. Then your friends know you’re bullshitting them they just do whatever, but they’re cool about it.

High-End Vanity - a healthy selfish. Putting yourself before others to do what's best for you.

Vanity - the mirror thing where you want to kiss yourself and you actually mean it.

It can fluctuate, change and/or evolve over time.

I'm a hybrid Bootleg-High-End Vanity,

Bootleg-leaning Vanity

AKA Bootleg Vanity-leaning Vanity.

Vanity Identities

by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021