Definitions by Dr. Bota
Family Identities
Gender Identity Variant
Anyone can be whoever they want.
Antishoplifting Mom
Mom
Mother
Questioning Dad
Dad
Daddy
Lady Uncle
Uncle
Uncle’s Cousin
Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin
Guy
Anyone can be whoever they want.
Antishoplifting Mom
Mom
Mother
Questioning Dad
Dad
Daddy
Lady Uncle
Uncle
Uncle’s Cousin
Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin
Guy
Family Identities by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021
Family Identities
Gender Identity Variant
Anyone can be whoever they want.
Antishoplifting Mom
Mom
Mother
Questioning Dad
Dad
Daddy
Lady Uncle
Uncle
Uncle's Cousin
Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin
Guy
Anyone can be whoever they want.
Antishoplifting Mom
Mom
Mother
Questioning Dad
Dad
Daddy
Lady Uncle
Uncle
Uncle's Cousin
Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin
Guy
Family Identities by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021
Vanity Identities
Self-Love. A healthy high ego.
It gets mistaken for arrogance.
Bootleg Vanity - if you really like how you look, but you don’t take it seriously and it’s light-hearted. Then your friends know you’re bullshitting them they just do whatever, but they’re cool about it.
High-End Vanity - a healthy selfish. Putting yourself before others to do what's best for you.
Vanity - the mirror thing where you want to kiss yourself and you actually mean it.
It can fluctuate, change and/or evolve over time.
It gets mistaken for arrogance.
Bootleg Vanity - if you really like how you look, but you don’t take it seriously and it’s light-hearted. Then your friends know you’re bullshitting them they just do whatever, but they’re cool about it.
High-End Vanity - a healthy selfish. Putting yourself before others to do what's best for you.
Vanity - the mirror thing where you want to kiss yourself and you actually mean it.
It can fluctuate, change and/or evolve over time.
I'm a hybrid Bootleg-High-End Vanity,
Bootleg-leaning Vanity
AKA Bootleg Vanity-leaning Vanity.
Vanity Identities
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Bootleg-leaning Vanity
AKA Bootleg Vanity-leaning Vanity.
Vanity Identities
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Vanity Identities by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021
Vanity Identities
Self-Love. A healthy high ego.
It gets mistaken for arrogance.
Bootleg Vanity - if you really like how you look, but you don’t take it seriously and it’s light-hearted. Then your friends know you’re bullshitting them they just do whatever, but they’re cool about it.
High-End Vanity - a healthy selfish. Putting yourself before others to do what's best for you.
Vanity - the mirror thing where you want to kiss yourself and you actually mean it.
It can fluctuate, change and/or evolve over time.
It gets mistaken for arrogance.
Bootleg Vanity - if you really like how you look, but you don’t take it seriously and it’s light-hearted. Then your friends know you’re bullshitting them they just do whatever, but they’re cool about it.
High-End Vanity - a healthy selfish. Putting yourself before others to do what's best for you.
Vanity - the mirror thing where you want to kiss yourself and you actually mean it.
It can fluctuate, change and/or evolve over time.
I'm a hybrid Bootleg-High-End Vanity,
Bootleg-leaning Vanity
AKA Bootleg Vanity-leaning Vanity.
Vanity Identities
Bootleg-leaning Vanity
AKA Bootleg Vanity-leaning Vanity.
Vanity Identities
Vanity Identities by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021
SOLD
Soy - Looking forward and/or up. Usually with conviction, attentiveness, direction and/or some sort of understanding.
Oy - Looking backwards and/or Catch-all, misc looks aside from Soy, Loy and Soy. Usually it's somewhat off, cognitive dissonance and/or miscellaneous.
Loy - Sideways glance or look, left or right. Usually out of curiosity, reflex and/or sarcasm.
Doy - Looking downwards, smiling and tucking hair behind ear is optional. Usually out of happiness, affection, peace, indifference and/or neutral.
Diagonal examples: Sloy, Soy-oy, Sdoy, Ldoy, Loy-oy, Doy-oy, Dloy, Soy-oy-oy, etc.
Four ways to look at people, places and things. SOLD can be good, bad, okay and/or neutral. Results may vary.
Oy - Looking backwards and/or Catch-all, misc looks aside from Soy, Loy and Soy. Usually it's somewhat off, cognitive dissonance and/or miscellaneous.
Loy - Sideways glance or look, left or right. Usually out of curiosity, reflex and/or sarcasm.
Doy - Looking downwards, smiling and tucking hair behind ear is optional. Usually out of happiness, affection, peace, indifference and/or neutral.
Diagonal examples: Sloy, Soy-oy, Sdoy, Ldoy, Loy-oy, Doy-oy, Dloy, Soy-oy-oy, etc.
Four ways to look at people, places and things. SOLD can be good, bad, okay and/or neutral. Results may vary.
Doy
Looking down.
Difference between Doy and Coy: it is not designed to be cute and/or flirtatious. Hair tuck and/or smiling is optional. There is wind to it, phenomenon is unexplained.
Common reasons: Happiness, Joy, Affection, Infatuation, Shyness, Confusion, I Don’t Understand, I Don’t Get It, Insight, Meditative, Sadness, Calm.
Ways of Looking: Soy, Oy, Loy, Doy.
Difference between Doy and Coy: it is not designed to be cute and/or flirtatious. Hair tuck and/or smiling is optional. There is wind to it, phenomenon is unexplained.
Common reasons: Happiness, Joy, Affection, Infatuation, Shyness, Confusion, I Don’t Understand, I Don’t Get It, Insight, Meditative, Sadness, Calm.
Ways of Looking: Soy, Oy, Loy, Doy.