Dr. Bota's definitions

Vanity Identities

Self-Love. A healthy high ego.
It gets mistaken for arrogance.

Bootleg Vanity - if you really like how you look, but you don’t take it seriously and it’s light-hearted. Then your friends know you’re bullshitting them they just do whatever, but they’re cool about it.

High-End Vanity - a healthy selfish. Putting yourself before others to do what's best for you.

Vanity - the mirror thing where you want to kiss yourself and you actually mean it.

It can fluctuate, change and/or evolve over time.

I'm a hybrid Bootleg-High-End Vanity,

Bootleg-leaning Vanity

AKA Bootleg Vanity-leaning Vanity.

Vanity Identities

by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021

CEO Day

November 2nd is the official US National holiday: CEO Day.
11/2/Year

I'm so happy it's CEO Day that I'm living my life the way I want and need to, every day of my life.
Excellence is normal.

by Dr. Bota November 2, 2021

Selfdom

Self-domination. A state of being where you love yourself, unconditionally and reasonably. To throw yourself onto yourself, one on top of the other until you are a pile.

I engage in selfdom in my spare time.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021

Family Identities

Gender Identity Variant

Anyone can be whoever they want.

Antishoplifting Mom

Mom

Mother

Questioning Dad

Dad

Daddy

Lady Uncle

Uncle

Uncle's Cousin

Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin

Guy

It's up to you, we're all guys family identities.

Mother can be Uncle's Cousin is Questioning Dad.

by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021

Oy

Looking backwards or in a way that is not Soy, Loy and Doy. Catch-all term for what? or other.

Common reasons: bewilderment, searching for something, confusion, uncertainty, etc.

I look with questions I don’t understand: That’s an oy.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021

Family Identities

Gender Identity Variant
Anyone can be whoever they want.

Antishoplifting Mom
Mom
Mother

Questioning Dad
Dad
Daddy

Lady Uncle
Uncle
Uncle’s Cousin

Gentleman Aunt
Aunt
Aunt’s Distant Cousin

Guy

It's up to you, we're all guys family identities.

Mother can Uncle's Cousin is Questioning Dad.

by Dr. Bota November 16, 2021

Soy

Looking straight-forward or up. Common reasons: Conviction, Direction, Attentiveness, Patience, Kindness, Purpose.

Ways of looking: Soy, Oy, Loy, Doy.

Kayden Will points up at the sky while looking up, and there’s an explosion with a light and a big, bright star.

Leia: That’s a soy.

by Dr. Bota September 13, 2021