ABCM

A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth. A less restrictive version of T4T.

Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy.

Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM

Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.

ABCM by transmothman July 25, 2022

ABCM

A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth.

Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy. Additionally, many trans people use this label as a less restrictive version of T4T.

Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM

Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.

ABCM by transmothman July 25, 2022

abcMouse

An educational platform with a creepy ass teacher who stares into your soul and runs to many ads on TV

My kid has improved since he/she started using abcMouse

abcMouse by Vormix June 12, 2018

ABCMF

Acronym meaning: “Ay, Buddha, Check My Fit!”
Used when you want a friend, s/o, or stranger to “check” or rate your outfit.
That person is referred to as “Buddha” because their fits are near godly levels and thus highly sought after.

Me: ABCMF
Friend: 4/10 your Vans got some holes and bleach stains, check yourself.

ABCMF by When’s dad coming home? March 19, 2020

ABCMF

Acronym meaning: “At, Buddha, Check My Fit!”
Used when you want a friend, s/o, or stranger to “check” or rate your outfit.

Me: ABCMF!
Friend: 6/10 you’ve got holes in your Vans 🤷🏻 ♂️

ABCMF by When’s dad coming home? March 18, 2020

abcmeliosss

an amazing tiktoker who’s irl name is maddie 😊(aka me lol)! i like to make people happy with my content and make sure that people don’t bully others! :) 💕

i really like this tiktoker called abcmeliosss!

abcmeliosss by mqds October 27, 2021

You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.

Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."

You met me at a very Chinese time in my life by Sus Chad September 21, 2026

Word of the Day on September 25, 2026

crunchy

Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.

"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"

crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007

Word of the Day on September 24, 2026

Galantir

A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.

Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.

Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026

Word of the Day on September 23, 2026

murderhobo

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.

DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.

murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021

Word of the Day on September 22, 2026