soul digger 

like a gold digger, but for people who date someone just to use them for emotional labor;

(someone who goes out with you fo yo emotional labor)

Now, I ain't sayin' he's a soul digger

soul digger by linguisticautistic.com May 27, 2017

Soul digger 

Persons who look for a partner who will do all their emotional labor for them instead of taking the time to heal themselves.

"Watch out for them, they preach conscious behavior but they're a total soul digger..."

Soul digger by Fire_Hoff March 5, 2019

Soul digger 

Someone who is fond of the spiritual side of life; of exploring the concept of the soul in different contexts

“you can’t impress her only with looks only, she’s a soul digger”

Soul digger by adhele37 November 25, 2020