soft butch

A lesbian who prefers to dress in a butch/masculine/androgynous way, but may have a more feminine attitude; considered the opposite of a “chapstick lesbian”

Person A: “Where do you fall on the futch scale?”
Person B: “I’m a soft butch.”

by lesbeans are valid February 10, 2018

soft butch

a female that is more masculine in additude,dresses like a man but still has a lil bit a (femme) in her.(Soft butch_ females don't want to be men but love dressing and acting like men.

hey! that girl is butchy but damn she hella pretty.

by MeL Perez January 29, 2004

soft butch

A woman who looks butch and is the more courtly partner, yet is not rigid about her role.

She looks butch, but she loves to cook.

by Cisco October 18, 2003

soft butch

a female that is more masculine in additude, but not so much in the way she looks

she acts butch, but doesnt look butch

by Michelle September 02, 2003

soft butch

soft lesbian that is masculinity just super confusing

she is a soft butch

by lila buckinham February 12, 2021

Soft Butch

A Soft Butch is a Butch Lesbian who presents herself as mostly masculine, but has some feminine traits.

Anastasia is a Soft butch. She'll buy most of her clothes from the Men's section and then spend hours on her makeup.

by Sweetmothersappho May 10, 2019

soft butch

incredibly stupid term that no lesbian should use

person 1: “yeah I’d say I’m a soft butch”

person 2: “what? there is literally no reason to call yourself that. just say you’re a butch.”

by beyonce’s lover June 07, 2025