An insecure man who relies on a girl too much and emotionally traps her. Usually threatens her with suicide if she has thoughts of leaving him. Claims he has anxiety when they are separated. In Reality the man just has no qualities that make women want to stay so he must pretend to be all vulnerable.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.