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Is the third part of the acronym BDSM. S/M stands for Sadism and Masochism. This is usually the art of inflicting or recieving pain that causes sexual pleasure or thrill. Some S/M acts are occasionally viewed as edge play. Some examples may include, intense flogging, caning, whipping, etc.
Hey man, did you hear that Andrew is into S/m? Weird... Called his girlfriend "Dom"
Actually bro, s/m is very common with most sexual couples, as are D/s relationships.
s/m by Fang Brothers April 17, 2016
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1. S&M, it's basically Sadism and Masochism which is a practice of taking or causing abuse during sex. An example of S&M is one partner whipping another during intercourse.

2. Feels so good being bad
There's no way I'm turning back
Now the pain is for pleasure
'Cause nothing can measure
Love is great, love is fine
Out the box, out of line
The affliction of the feeling leaves me wanting more
'Cause I may be bad but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me
'Cause I may be bad but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones,
But chains and whips excite me~ - Rihanna, S&M
Richard: "She call's me master because she's into S&M."

Tom: "What the fuck, Richard-"
S&M by BigTitMonsta April 16, 2019
Related Words
s'more • S&M • s'morgasm • S’mores • S-Man • s'moregasm • s my b • S+M • S-Mire • s my c
1: Sadism and Masochism

The practice of using pain as a sexual stimulant. Some variants of S&M include


* Breast torture
* Spanking
* Whipping
* Blood play
* Vaginal torture
* 'CBT,' Cock and Ball Torture
* Asphyxiation
* Hot wax

2: Slave and Master

See also: Bondage, B&D
"You up for some S&M?"
"Gods, no. I bruise easily."
S&M by thehumanencyclopedia June 21, 2004
abbreviation for Sadist / Masochist sex. A term used to describe the sex and many accouterments of pain associated with this type of sex. The sadist inflicts pain and asserts control over the masochist; both parties enjoy their role by definition.
To teach people about S & M, the secretary and I held a workshop on the subject to which many of our peers attended.
S & M by meltinyourhand July 18, 2004
The combination of using sex and magic for stimulating ones self or a partner.
Using wizardry such as the wingardium leviosa on male gentalia to give the effect of a stonk-on erection, or , diffindo a spell that when used properly can rip the clothes of the person the spell is cast on . Many other spells and techniques have been integrated with sexual activity and a full list can be found in Hagrid's basement where most of these spells were first experimented. S&M.
S&M by weasleysbitch June 6, 2011
1. sadism and masochism: sexual practice involving the giving and recieving of pain. usually, one partner is a sadist who gets pleasure giving pain and the other is a masochist who enjoys recieving it. some times both partners are a little bit of both. sometimes involves items such as whips and hot wax

2. FUN!!!!!!!

see: [SM}
"I heard that girl is wild in bed"
"yea, shes into S&M"
s&m by Stoner Eyes August 23, 2004
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