pityvite 

When you give someone an invitation to an event more out of pity than for any other reason.

Tanya found out that I took Nikki to lunch today, so next week I think I'm going to have to throw her a pityvite.

pityvite by Tee-Liscious December 16, 2009

Pity-vite

An invitation extended only because the inviter feels sorry for the invitee.

We sent a pity-vite to the nerdy guy for the Superbowl party because nobody else would.

Pity-vite by DDP1963 February 5, 2009