A real bum when it comes to first impression but a genuinely nice person once you get to now them. This person will be an enemy once you meet them but a really nice person though you might consider a good nickname for them to be dickweed
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.