when a male individual dates a female friend of their's for an extended period of time in order to avoid an awkward situation, but ends up making himself miserable, and later end up hating the former female friend, whom they did nothing physical with. In some situations in this complex the male is further embarrassed once being dumped by the female.
Ed: I hate going out with my girlfriend, we do not do anything but hold hands since its awkward being that i have known her since I was two.
Mike: I told you to never go out with her, i think you have an eddifer complex, dumbass.
Mike: I told you to never go out with her, i think you have an eddifer complex, dumbass.
by mikear December 10, 2006