in a homosexual relationship, there is almost always a "
boy" and a "
girl". The "boy" is simply the dominant of the two regardless of gender while the "
girl" is the submissive. sometimes, there is neither a boy or a
girl, and the two are as equals in dominance as identical twins would share equal behaviors recieved by the parents and actions towards each other. In short, a twinometric relationship, the partners are seen as equals instead of having a dominance complex.