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Submissive Top 

A submissive top is a top that likes it when the bottom is in control. Dominant bottoms can be just as powerful as dominant tops. The bottom prioritizes what they want over what the top wants. This can look like the dominant bottom pinning his submissive top down while riding him.

Disclaimer: Top does not = Dominant, and Bottom does not = Submissive. The top is the person that penetrates, and the bottom is the person that gets penetrated. The dominant is the person who is in control, and the submissive is the person that submits.
That submissive top that I hooked up with last night had the audacity to shoot his load before I gave him permission. I ended up taking three more loads from him since he failed to realize that I own his cock…
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submissive top 

The man in a gay relationship who, while loves inserting his man meat into his partner, likes to be dominated; have his man straddle him and do most of the actual riding is common. Other examples would be that they like to let the partner do what ever they want to him. They are usually dominated by a Power Bottom.
Alex is a submissive top because he lets Max ride him like a horse.
submissive top by Maxers January 2, 2009

submissive top 

A submissive top just that, a submissive person being in the top's partners role. Being most often synonymous with a power bottom as the dominant person having more fun in the bottom's position.

A submissive top could also be attributed to a person who looks like a more dominant person; tall, intimidating, strong and other things picture when thinking about dominant people, but their personality is that of a submissive bottom. They can desire that feeling of being controlled, helpless and otherwise submissive, to the right power bottom.
A "power bottom" and a "submissive top" are like two sides of the same coin. I wonder if there's a better word than "submissive" to be the opposite of the word "power"? Every other word makes it sound like an insult.
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