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A submissive top is a top that likes it when the bottom is in control. Dominant bottoms can be just as powerful as dominant tops. The bottom prioritizes what they want over what the top wants. This can look like the dominant bottom pinning his submissive top down while riding him.

Disclaimer: Top does not = Dominant, and Bottom does not = Submissive. The top is the person that penetrates, and the bottom is the person that gets penetrated. The dominant is the person who is in control, and the submissive is the person that submits.

That submissive top that I hooked up with last night had the audacity to shoot his load before I gave him permission. I ended up taking three more loads from him since he failed to realize that I own his cock…

Submissive Top by A man’s man July 8, 2021

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submissive top

The man in a gay relationship who, while loves inserting his man meat into his partner, likes to be dominated; have his man straddle him and do most of the actual riding is common. Other examples would be that they like to let the partner do what ever they want to him. They are usually dominated by a Power Bottom.

Alex is a submissive top because he lets Max ride him like a horse.

submissive top by Maxers January 2, 2009

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submissive top

A submissive top just that, a submissive person being in the top's partners role. Being most often synonymous with a power bottom as the dominant person having more fun in the bottom's position.

A submissive top could also be attributed to a person who looks like a more dominant person; tall, intimidating, strong and other things picture when thinking about dominant people, but their personality is that of a submissive bottom. They can desire that feeling of being controlled, helpless and otherwise submissive, to the right power bottom.

A "power bottom" and a "submissive top" are like two sides of the same coin. I wonder if there's a better word than "submissive" to be the opposite of the word "power"? Every other word makes it sound like an insult.

submissive top by Helpful_Vaporeon March 31, 2020

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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.

"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."

Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026

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pod person

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.

The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.

pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005

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dead drop

A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.

"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."

dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008

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No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.

You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.

No Surprises Wedding by dbdefenestrate August 27, 2023

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