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As ambiguous human sexuality has become in the 21st century, it is important to recognize that being a submissive is just as ambiguous. And that reality has serious implications when you add the need to find a Dominant to serve. Understanding the anatomy of what makes someone submissive is necessary in order to effectively present in the truest and most honest form possible. Because while it is so easy to just focus on fulfilling the fantasy, it is equally difficult to focus on what a Dominant deserves.
A true submissive serves from the heart, they don’t need an Owner driving them to do something, they do it willingly, gladly, eagerly.
by sbpr December 30, 2018
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A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).
Janet was a submissive in bed, but she knew how to stand up for herself when her boss tried to push her around.
by Aileen April 21, 2003
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"And no, don't change the subject. Because you're my favourite subject. My sweet, submissive subject. My loyal, royal subject.
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by King George IIII July 26, 2017
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A male/female who is sexually submissive to their Master/Dom by choice. The "GIFT" if submission is earned by respect it's not just given.
Safe, sane and consensual submissive.
Characterizes the acceptable play within the SM community: players adhere to safety precautions within their activities, do not participate in practices that will injure their partners (mentally or physically), and obtain consent by negotiating scenes and scene related activities before carrying them out.

by submissive_soul2000 April 03, 2006
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One who gives over their rights, their desires, and themselves to another. As a gift.
Of the two, Jane was the most submissive.
by Anonymous November 02, 2003
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A person (male or female) who is part of the BDSM subculture, who takes part in a power exchange (partial or total) within a relationship. This doesn't have to be sexual- Dom/sub relationships can entirely exclude sex. The Dom (also known as a Top), takes control over the subs (or bottom) life; this can be in the form of dictating their diet, or what they wear, or more intimate things. The sub often wears a collar to show that they are owned by a Dom.
My Master told me not to drink any alcohol, so I obey him because I am his submissive.
by {bunneh}10Fold May 01, 2011
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