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Sexpats originate from all major Western countries, yet it has been noted that the English, Germans and Americans make up the vast majority of the vile men that are on the prowl for sex in Southeast Asia. Sexpats have only 3 main motivations: to get drunk, sleep with hookers and to survive in Asia as long as possible.

They support themselves in a number of ways. The lucky ones have taken early retirement and spend the days sleeping off hangovers or going to the clinic to get another HIV test, some have set up businesses and have opened a bar or a restaurant selling their native cuisine, with the unlucky ones having to make do with being a TEFL teacher or scraping a living as a “digital nomad”, while gloating about the greatness of their “lifestyle”.

Once a Sexpat has fully ingratiated himself within the Sexpat community, there is abolutely no chance for his re-assimilation back into normal society.
Steve can work online and has now moved permanently to Thailand. He has become a true sexpat.
by seahand October 15, 2017
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A sexpat is anyone who moves to another country for the main reason of obtaining easier sex (which includes both copulating with pros and civilians).

Due to the increases in connectivity, modern sexpats often work from their laptops and can be seen sexpatting in several countries at once (or playgrounds, as they call it), by taking advantage of tourist visas.

This is the only true and authentic definition of a sexpat. However, younger sexpats in the 20-40yo demographics usually vehemently deny being sexpats and will instead find a whole bunch of elegant excuses to cover up their sexpatery and preserve their ego.

They will argue for instance that sexpats are only the older dudes paying pros, and that "gaming" civilians (= pumping and dumping young girls by taking advantage of the cultural and economic differential) puts them in a whole different category altogether.

This is due to huge ego and self-image issues. Younger sexpats therefore use countless euphemisms such as "pick up artists" and "lifestyle travelers", instead of sexpats. They will also always deny, even at gunpoint, that their sexpatery has anything to do with them not being able to copulate back home.

Once past 40 years old, reality usually sets in and sexpats lose the emotional need to see themselves as an "international playboy" and stop seeing copulation with random women as a way to validate themselves. Their P4P consumption increases, as convenience takes preponderance over ego issues.
- Matt Fecal: RooshVForum is a prime sexpat forum.
- Phil Pedeau: Yeah, but they will ban anyone who mentions P4P though. They have huge personal self-esteem issues and recognition needs to fulfill.
- Mat Fecal: They are so desperate for sex that they will travel to the Krasnodar Krai to find it, yet will deny being sex tourists.
by Mongerpat November 04, 2018
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A person (generally man) who "couldn't get laid in a brothel back home", who moves to a poor country where prosititues are cheap to "finally be treated like the man he always knew he was."

The difference between a sex-tourist and a sexpat is the sexpat must LIVE in the country, a sex-tourist is a short stay visitor.
A sexpat approached me in Starbucks whining "all the Thai girls are just after my money."

"Ohhh reeeally" I mocked Mr Ugly Sexpat, did you think it was your fat gut or your balding head the pretty girls were after?
by Karen Fleming December 26, 2005
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Sexpat (noun), an compound of sex and expat or expatriate.

A sexpat is one who participates in tourism with the express intention of having sex.

There may be a variety of reasons for this, such as:
less restrictive laws in foreign countries;
anonymity or privacy;
a preference for people of other ethnic groups;
financial reasons i.e. if one travels from a wealthy country to a poorer one.

However, by far and away the single greatest reason for the existence of the sexpat phenomenon is that sexpats find securing carnal relations with someone in their own country difficult to impossible to achieve.
Andy: I'm becoming fed up of Phuket.
Shane: Why?
Andy: It's because of all the nasty old ***man sexpats over here.
Shane: I agree. Shall we go to Patong and ogle some bar girls?
Andy: Ok.
by Roo May 30, 2005
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