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Secular Trauma Syndrome

The chronic condition stemming from unresolved Secular Trauma, characterized by a defensive, hyper-rationalist worldview, deep-seated distrust of communal belonging, and a persistent, often unacknowledged, existential grief. Sufferers may exhibit abrasive atheist militancy as a defense against their own sadness, or conversely, a hollow, consumerist approach to filling the "god-shaped hole." Symptoms include an inability to engage with metaphor or ritual, social alienation, and a cynical aversion to any form of transcendence or collective meaning-making, having equated all such things with their traumatic religious past.
Example: A former evangelical becomes a strident, online atheist who attacks any expression of spirituality as "stupid." They are deeply lonely, find art and music meaningless, and fill their life with cynical debate and empty productivity. Underneath the intellectual superiority is a secular trauma syndrome: an unprocessed grief for the community and cosmic certainty they lost, and a terrified rigidity that ensures they will never be "fooled" again by any belief system. Their rationality is a fortress built around a wound.
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How to say "you're an idiot/clown" using only emojis.
Person 1: Insert completely incorrect and/or idiotic statement here
Person 2: 🤡🫵🏻
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Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
fogey by Petyush September 14, 2005
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That dude’s such a pitpig, I have to wear deodorant to keep him at bay.
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You the birthday

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Nah fr, you the birthday, you got all the attention.
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Word of the Day on May 28, 2026

church hurt 

church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
Word of the Day on May 27, 2026