When your partner tends to do unholy sexual things during intercourse; rough/ nasty sex; such as choking, hair pulling, throwing your body into positions, kinks, anything else that you can think of that would get you aroused.
A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."