When someone in a small town attempts to act as if they are more civilized than their local peers.
Demitri: "Hey John, you're still wearing plaid? Why don't you join the rest of us in the 21st century?"
John: "Hey Demitri, You're New yorkin' it pretty bad. You might want to pull your head out of your ass and join the rest of us folks who don't wear skinny jeans because they're uncomfortable and hard to walk in."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.